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Learn Millionaire Habits, Skills, and Mindset from a Millionaire — Denver, Oct. 18 2014

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Jeffrey Combs, the Millionaire Maker.

Jeffrey Combs, the Millionaire Maker.

The first success book I ever read was ‘Think & Grow Rich’ by the late-great Napoleon Hill, when I was 15 years old. It was recommended by my older brothers who had it recommended to them by their upline in a network marketing company.

While reading this book, I felt like I was peering into the hidden laws of the universe. How to bring the unseen into the seen, to bring my intense teenage desires into physical, glorious reality. At the time, it was girls and wellness…and stayed pretty much the same until my late teens  when it became girls and spirituality.

Reading that book led me UP a path of personal and spiritual development over the past 18 years, spending over $40,000 in books, home-study courses, seminars, and meditation retreats. During this time I came across extraordinary motivational, informational, and inspirational speakers, coaches, and businessmen.

Anthony Robbins. Brian Tracy. Donald Trump. Barbara Walters…and many others who were lessor known but just as empowering.

Enter Jeffrey Combs stage right…

I have a lot of indirect history with Jeffrey (continue reading to learn more about that history) but in a nutshell, he is a master at transforming people’s lives and businesses through his books, CDs, courses, events and one-on-one coaching.

Jeffrey Combs is president and founder of Golden Mastermind Seminars, international speaker and published author. He grew three network marketing businesses to over six-figures MONTHLY. Jeffrey has spent over 90,000 hours of real time, coaching entrepreneurs, direct and internet marketers, and real estate investors over the past 18+-years. He coaches 12 hours a day and has a three-month waiting-list to work with him. If you are looking to take your business or personal life to the next level I highly recommend coming to this event.

In 2007, my wife (at the time) and I were both employed in the timeshare business in Orlando. I believe timeshare to be one of the last true bastions of ‘true selling.’ Think about it. Where else in the world do you have the challenge of selling a 5, even 6-figure, product  in 90 minutes to someone who is not at all interested and is only sitting in front of you for a free breakfast and 2 amusement park passes valued at $85 for ONLY 45 minutes of his time?

Tough sell indeed.

Selling timeshare was a great time in my life…I learned about human psychology, asking qualifying and closing questions, dressing for success and painting a positive picture. Guess what I didn’t learn? Apparently, how to lie, deceive, double-talk, and play favorites with management. My timeshare selling career was on thin ice because of it. It offers some of the best sales training in the world along with some shadowy practices and characters, as I later found out.

Because of the unpredictable nature of the business, my wife was looking for additional opportunities to make money that  we could transition into and possibly use our active real estate licenses.

Enter Nouveau Riche University, stage left.

Without going into much detail. I got home from work one afternoon after selling my butt off and found my wife sitting in our office with a strange, older man dressed in a nice business suit. My first thought was, “Oh Lord, what is he pitching her and did she sign on the dotted line already? Ok, I’m sure we have at least 24-hours to cancel.”

The man sitting in our office was a very successful salesman, real estate investor, and father of five. And he was signing up my wife to sell real estate education for a commission. I wanted nothing to do with it. I remember saying, “How many different companies like this have we signed up for and not made any money with?” Her silence was answer enough.

But being the serial entrepreneur and lover-of-systems that I am, I began looking into the real estate education, pay-plan, and marketing system and immediately fell in love with it.

Every direct-sale or network marketing company has its rock-stars and top performers and Nouveau Riche University was no different. I began listening to their weekly conference calls. While each top performer had their own unique challenges and situations in building their business they all shared one thing in common…Jeffrey Combs.

“Who the heck is this Jeffrey Combs dude?”

One night, I was listening to another live call when the President of NRU introduced Jeffrey Combs on line. Within the first 2 minutes I knew this guy was different. I was in awe of his delivery, clarity and ability to cut to the heart of the matter.  A quote from him really stuck with me, “Sales is the world’s highest paid profession.” Being a self-proclaimed wordsmith, he spun old success cliches and adages into new, fresh and memorable lessons. He was a Top performer among top performers.

I was so inspired to action after that conference call, I immediately went outside and placed over 500 flyers promoting the NRU opportunity on cars at 10 o’clock at night.  I was on fire! That buzz lasted for over a week and I generated over 425 leads within 1-month after applying the knowledge he shared during that call.

I ordered most of Jeffrey Combs materials on lead generation, prospecting, closing, asking questions, qualifying, success mindset, removing procrastination…his material and delivery resonated so much with me and was unlike anything I had heard of before. I wanted more.

Enter ‘Breakthroughs to Success’ middle stage.

My wife and I had had the opportunity to visit Jeffrey Combs at his house in Stockton, CA for his weekend long event called Breakthroughs to Success. During this event, you would get to watch Jeffrey work and how he structures his day to create millionaire results. As ‘luck’ would have it, the last minute before buying our tickets, we BOTH lost our jobs. It was not a good day at the Long household.

We had enough money for ONLY one ticket. So who goes? Me or my wife? Who was more in need of a breakthrough? What happened next changed the direction of my life.

We went back and forth for a day, trying to encourage the other person to go but then I heard my wife subcommunicate that she really needed this, I made the internal shift and said, “Well, ok ok…you go and do this and come back with the clarity you’ve been seeking.” I definitely wanted to go but looking back, my inner drive wasn’t strong enough to make it happen.

She went. She had many breakthroughs. And she realized that our marriage wasn’t working.

Five-months later we were divorced and I moved from Orlando, FL to Butler, NJ outside of NYC.

It was the toughest time of my life emotionally, financially, and spiritually. I was emotionally crushed and devastated by what transpired over those 5-months. But that time of transition lead to the next four years of intense pranic healing work on myself and others,  direct training under the Pranic Healing Masters, attendance to dozens of meditation and healing retreats, a super supportive relationship and learning how to forgive myself and others. Jeffrey Combs was a major catalyst from a selfish life to a life of service.

I cannot thank him enough for freeing my ex-wife and I, from a marriage of misery, struggle, and obligation.

Now THAT is the power of a great coach.

And that is one, of many reasons, I’m bringing him to Denver on Oct 18th 2014.

For less than the price of a full tank of gas, you can spend the day with a millionaire who will teach you how to become one, if you so choose. I have attended this exact event in Orlando and put my reputation on it.

Check out what you’ll learn here.

What do I get out of it?

Well, monetarily nothing.

Yet I get to host Jeffrey Combs as a way of saying Thank You. I get to add tremendous value to my network so they can learn new skills, habits, and mindsets to increase their influence and affluence. Finally, I get him to present Pranic Healing to his network thus spreading the work of my Teacher, Grandmaster Choa.

Win-Win-Win.

Here at the details to the ‘More Heart Than Talent ‘Event.

Date: Saturday Oct 18th 2014

Time: 9:00am to 4:00pm

Who is this for? Direct marketers, internet marketers, network marketers, coaches, holistic practitioners and real estate investors….anyone who is a sales or service professional or who wants to make a difference in the world.

Where: DTC area (still locating a space)

Limited Seating: 40 Spots Available

Reserve Your Spot here. 

Looking forward to seeing you there. The world needs more people like you who have influence and affluence to have a positive impact  on this and future generations to come. This is NOT your average event.

With Love.

Christian

A Chance to Be on TV and Have Dinner with Us

By | Coaching, Flow Interviews, Meditation, Pranic Healing, Uncategorized | One Comment
Twenty-five years ago, my spiritual began with a PBS show...

Twenty-five years ago, my spiritual began with a PBS show…

Very grateful for the opportunity to be interviewed by Steve Toth of Conscious Evolution Media and PBS Colorado Channel 12 on Saturday May 31st, at 3:00pm MT.

This interview will be about Pranic Healing, meditation, and my own embarrassing life lessons…with chance of reaching 3,000,000 million in the state of Colorado. Super cool.

If you are in the Denver area and want to attend the LIVE recording, click on this RSVP link.

Afterwards, we’ll all be going out to dinner nearby to celebrate and have some laughs.

10 Signs to Know You’re in Flow

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Flow sweet flow.

Flow sweet flow.

I created the acronym for FLOW STATES below to help you remember the qualities of flow. But, if for any reason you forget those qualities, just remember the picture above. This is flow at its finest. As you read each of these qualities, see if you can match them up with these children running.

Focus – being in flow causes you to be process-orientated rather than results-orientated, fully immersed in the task at hand without becoming distracted. A famous example of focus while being in flow was amateur-golfer, Joyce Wethered. At age 19, she defeated English great Cecil Leitch to win the 1920 English Women’s Amateur title. Wethered sank a putt on the final hole of the match for the victory. It was a hole adjacent to train tracks, and a train sped past as Wethered was over her putt. She was asked afterward how she was able to make the putt with the distraction of the train. She replied, “What train?”

Loss of Self – being in flow causes you to lose sense of the ego. You are no longer driven by the ego’s desire for fame, fortune, and immortality, it merely fades away. This is a beautiful experience.

Oneness – being in flow gives you a glimpse of the interconnectedness and ultimately, the Oneness, of all things big and small, seen or unseen. Many years ago, after several hours of meditation, I left the meditation hall and walked back to my dorm room. In front of the building entrance was a huge tree…a tree I had seen many times before. Yet this time was different, for just a brief moment, I sensed the tree and I were one. My arms became its branches, my blood became its slow moving sap, my skin became its gnarly bark. I have no idea how long it lasted. An experience I’ll never forget.

Witness – being in flow gives you the ability to witness your thoughts, emotions, and actions instead of identifying as them. Eckhart Tolle says, “One’s attention chases a thought just as a dog chases a scent.” As a witness, you simply observe the thought without attaching meaning or judgment, you are not chasing the thought down the stream of consciousness and losing your space as a witness.

Strength – being in flow gives you a tremendous sense of power, energy and unshakable faith. Fear, self doubt, and lack of self worth are constructs of the ego, which fades away during flow.

Timelessness – being in flow you lose track of time. Regretting the past and worrying about the future are no longer a priority, only the present moment. In general, you sense of time while in flow seems to go by faster than actual time. Hours seems like minutes.

Alertness – being in flow gives you mental alertness not available outside of flow. In baseball, a 90 mile an hour fastball seems like its standing still in comparison to the alert state of the batter whom is in flow. In music, ideas flood the mind of the composer faster than she can actually write them down. You are as a cat waiting for the mouse to come from out the hole.

Tranquility – being in flow gives you deep and profound inner peace, inner contentment and inner joy. Its a though you are living off a strict diet of tranquility, no longer needing physical sustenance. The singer Beyonce, was so in flow during the creation of her new album, she had forgotten to eat for 3 days.

Effortlessness – being in flow gives you the sense of effortlessness during physical exertion. Its as though the effort is being done through you rather because of you. One triathlete had a feeling of effortlessness during his swim portion of the competition. While demonstrating relaxed and effortless strokes, he was a full 100 yards ahead of second place. Its as though with each stoke or pedal or step, the body becomes more energized and less stressed.

Stillness – being in flow gives you a sense of stillness that seems to impregnate even the loudest of environments.

F L O W S T A T E S are your B E S T S T A T E S

With Love.

Are You a Social Butterfly with Clipped Wings?

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butterfly 2

Are you also beautiful and trapped?

Last night my girlfriend hosted her very first book club in Denver. The first book they’ll be reviewing is called the Desire Map by Danielle Laporte. This author is pretty badass, even for a chick. I read her other book, Fire Starter and was really impressed with her candor, razor sharp wit, and a willingness to be vulnerable. The first meeting was a smashing success with almost 20 women in attendance. My girlfriend, is also a coach and after every session or speaking gig, we love to debrief with each other on these 3 questions, 1. What went awesome? 2. What needed some work? 3. What can be done better next time to make it even more awesome? I was surprised by her answer to number 2.

“So many of these women have lost their passion, their love of life, and they went from being social butterflies to butterflies with clipped wings.”

She shared with me, minus the names of the attendees of course, how many of them felt stuck in their lives. She asked the group, “What do you love most in life?” Many of the women felt compelled to respond with the typical knee-jerk responses of ‘husband or boyfriend or kids.’ Otherwise they could be judged as a bad wife or girlfriend or mom.

My girlfriend exploded, “I’m so glad these women are here, we’re going to reignite that fire!” Considering how much love, passion and dedication she has for assisting others in transforming their lives, is it any wonder why she chose to be a life coach?

How did these once social butterflies who met the world each day with wonder, curiosity, openness, and vulnerability become butterflies with clipped wings with dim eyes, fuzzy purpose, and disconnected relationships?

Its not just one, two or even three factors….its probably dozens. Lets look at 5 Big Ones.

Ecosystem. Whenever my girlfriend is agitated, hyper emotional, or depressed its typically for one of two reasons. She hasn’t had sex in a day and feels a deep ache to pair bond and orgasm or she hasn’t been taking care of her ecosystem of positive emotions.

I first heard this phrase coined by Owen Cook, an expert in social dynamics. I later realized the contents composing an ecosystem of positive emotions is subject I had studied for 20 years. In essence, your daily routine of sleep, nutrition, exercise, meditation, and social network will have either a positive net gain on your emotions or a negative net loss on your emotions. The more self-care a woman practices the better she’ll be able to not only survive but thrive in her day to day Being.

How many women put others needs ahead of their own? In the rare she does, there is a flood of perceived or actual judgment from friends and family who ‘depend’ on her for their ‘very survival.’ By taking care of yourself daily in these areas of your life you will be the super woman you know that you are, but here’s the catch. You’re gonna have to setup clear intentions with boundaries. Be able to say no, or not now. No one else can do it for you.

Your alternative? Stay tired, frustrated, and unappreciated by friends and family while you give not from your heart but from resentment, bitterness, and forced obligation. Butterflies that do not practice self-care daily wither and die by the very flowers they nurture.

Media. News Flash Women: you have been brainwashed since birth. Every medium of advertising since you were born has been telling you are not pretty, sexy, smart, funny, healthy unless you eat this, wear this, drink this, apply this or remove that. WAKE UP WOMEN!

These channels of advertising do not give a shit about you. They are simply preying on your emotional body to sell you anything and everything that they tell you will make you happy. Would you rather have your self worth, self esteem, and self image controlled by marketers, advertisers, and makeup companies or would you like to be in the driver’s seat?

As cliché as it sounds, true beauty comes from within. A woman who has loving thoughts and loving words, who loves and cares for herself, who has loving supportive relationships in her life will glow like the sun. But what of the woman who spends her days and nights wallowing in negative thoughts, negative emotions, clubbing, excessive drinking, and consuming processed foods while she surrounds herself with relationships built on drama, chaos, and abuse? No amount of makeup, male attention, plastic surgery or shopping sprees with fill her emotional and spiritual void. Butterflies have a hard time flying when their wings are coated with shit.

Beta Boys. How many of you women have wished if you could just find a “nice guy” and stop dating all these jerks, you’d be happy?

Enter Beta Boys stage right.

You do not want want a “nice guy” (beta boy). Here’s why.

A “nice guy” will give you everything you want; attention, gifts, words of affirmation, and comply to all your wishes. His only purpose in life is to please you. You’ll be placed on the highest, most expensive, 24-karat-gold-plated pedestal. Guess what? After the initial ‘he’s perfect’ wears off, you’ll be bored to fucking tears. You won’t respect him because he has no bigger purpose in life than to please you, which means you’ll have all the added pressure to be happy in the relationship.

The real kicker is these beta boys turn women into scared, bitter, resentful, and disconnected women. Beta boys are coming from a disingenuous place. The attention, gifts, and compliance are masking their lack of direction, neediness, lack mentality, and desperation. Beta boys are reactionary not responsive. They suck positive emotions from you because they can’t create those from within themselves. Beta boys are fearful and intimated by your sexuality. They are constantly seeking validation and approval from you rather than you seeking it from themselves.

Enter Alpha males stage left.

Alpha males are the ones who have a higher purpose in life. They set the frame of the relationship with honesty, clarity, and are uncompromising, the woman can choose to enter his frame or not. Alpha males are non-needy because they have clear direction, social life, and their own ecosystem of positive emotions that nourish them, not relying on a you to provide that. They allow you to be feminine, flowing, emotional, and moody….because they are centered and unaffected because they know your emotional storm evaporates in their shining consciousness. They celebrate, admire, and relish in your sexuality in all ways rather than suppressing and judging it. When you are in the presence of a true alpha male, it allows you to relax into your femininity, sexuality, and sweetness. Butterflies have a hard time basking in the sunshine and flowers when they are being swatted by the beta boy gardener.

Hard-Wired. We are social creatures since we started forming tribal cultures approximately 200,000 years ago. Typically a tribe consisted of 150 to 500 people max. After that 500 member threshold, your connection to these members would be in face only.

Our brains are hardwired to socialize in small tribal communities. This hard-wired tendency to limit our social interaction to 150-500 members, becomes a problem in our modern culture because resources, employment, and opportunities are spread out over vast areas and require connecting with 100’s, if not, 1,000’s of people to get what we want. Fear comes up.

In tribal cultures, if you stood out from the group in a way the group perceived to be endangering them, there was a chance you would ostracized from the tribe. Alone in the wilderness during these times meant certain death. Our brains are still holding onto that thinking, if you say hi to this person or ask you boss for a raise or go in for the goodnight kiss, your amygdala screams, “No, don’t do that! You’re going to be kicked out of the tribe and die!” So its better not to say or do anything. Never-mind the fact that in our modern world you can practically say and do whatever the fuck you want and still thrive tremendously.

The point is, its alright to be expressive, to be vulnerable, to ask for what you want and refuse what you don’t want. Being unfriended on Facebook or being uninvited to the Annual Gala Dinner or receiving a dirty look from your server because you said your food was cold, will not leave you isolated and left to die. We, men and women, must realize this fear is rooted in our biology not in our reality, it is ancient history. Literally! Butterflies who don’t socialize with other butterflies will be left out in the cold to die.

Karma. Being born as a woman suggests you have specific gender karma to work out. One in four women have been sexually abused in the United States. That is the collective pain body, to quote Eckhart Tolle, that women born into this country are dealing with. You may have been molested as a small girl, you may have been raped as a college student, you may have been physically abused by a boyfriend or husband.

Life is not fair.

Life IS about cause and effect. A spiritual teacher of mine once said, “No suffering is undeserved.” Meaning whatever pain, suffering, or anguish you are experiencing right now or in the past, is because of past actions or seeds you planted. In this life or a previous one, you planted the seeds of abuse, rage, neglect and violence. Now you are reaping those fruits in this current life.

How does it serve you to wallow in pity, victim-hood, depression, and bitterness for the rest of your life? Forgive the person or persons who were channels for your negative karma and have compassion for them. Here’s why. You are suffering now from your past misdeeds right? The person or persons causing you pain right now will suffer as much or worse in the future through the actions and misdeeds they are sowing. Simply learn your lesson and move on with your life. Butterflies that are angry, sad, and depressed looking at their feet miss the beauty all that is beautiful; other butterflies, flowers, the sun, the moon, the stars, and beyond.

This is not a complete list as to why women lose their way of being social butterflies. Here are your takeaway points. Creating and sticking to a daily routine of self care with improve your life immensely. Your radiance and beauty comes from who you are Being, not from what you are Buying. Be open to receiving an alpha male whose presence opens and develops your feminism and sexuality and avoid the beta boys who wish to control and suppress it. Realize your biology not your reality, is keeping you from being social, asking for what you want, and refusing what you don’t want.

You were born at this time in history, to your family history, in your body because of past thoughts, words, and actions. What life and lifetimes do you want to create moving forward? Forgive the past, look forward to the future and realize you are far more than a butterfly with clipped wings.

You are a beautiful, divine child of God with a life’s purpose that is calling.

With Love.

For those looking to live a perfect day, I offer free 30 minutes of coaching to assist you in creating your perfect day. During the free session you will gain clarity on how to live your perfect day, identify challenges in creating your perfect day, and feel a renewed sense of enthusiasm and vigor for your life. Contact me at ChristianRLong.com or 347-879-076Four

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